What's the type of the girl u want ?

I was talking with a friend yesterday about girls,their importance,why each one of us (males) want 2 marry one of them (urgently),do each girl differ from the other or not..... and we both reached some level of agreement on some points which i'll show u at the end of the post but now let's disscuss some points about the girl u want

I once sorted girls (in my prespective) into 2 types of girls:

1-Ordinary Girl
(O-Girl) [standard edition] :D

2-Extraordinary Girl
(E-Girl) [professional edition], sometimes i call them "Divas" not to worship them but to remember that they are girls AND intelligent (who knows maybe creative in bed also) :D

of Course many girls during the period of engagement (which is more like the menstrual cycle) can be really a pain in the ass,...... how ?

most of the girls i don't know maybe have kinda program in their genetic code maybe to destroy humankind or something which she believes that will save her and will make her choose the best male that will come her way.

(so he will reach some level of greatness when she marries him !!!!)

She constantly tests him and puts him in situations in which he MUST be a jerk and doesn't agree on her requests just like the previous post ( being a such nice guy doesn't mean that she'll choose you ).

She feels that he's not a man because he agrees on her requests and tries to satisfy her and doesn't want to hurt her feelings or make her unhappy ..... illogical but true.

She has the right to not tell why she exactly rejected a good guy, it's just that her spider sense told her that this guy is not to be her future husband. She can say "Mafesh Qabool".

Great and because of that we see that many "2anesat" became "3anesat" eventually because they have used their right of saying "no" for too long till they became in time where no one can say "yes" to them.

I'm sorry to tell u this but each girl that looks to marriage in this prespective is a bitch and don't u ever feel sorry for her because that's not the way it should be for choosing a husband for her entire lifetime.


Returning to the point where i sorted the girls into 2 types.

1- Ordinary Girls (O-Girls)
Can be seen anywhere in the universe, most of them have taken care of their bodies and forgot their minds altogether. She can be considered more like a cow when u marry her. So marriage is just doubling everything and u make sure that ur salary can be divided by two.
When u say to her go left, she goes .... right she goes right without questioning.

I didn't get married so it maybe not the right point of view that married people may see.some people may disagree with me and see that girls transform into women and from that point she's the main boss of the small organization called "family" meaning that she controls everything and that means EVERYTHING.


2- Extraordinary Girls (E-Girls)
Can be seen i don't know maybe 10 times per lifetime or so. maybe it depends on ur domain or where do u work but they are very rare. Mainly they have taken good care of their minds and some of them forgot about their bodies. but i've met 2 exceptions to this rule so i didn't say "most of them".

(E-Girls) are intelligent and some guys find it really a pain in the ass to get married to one of them because when u say: go left she asks u :" why ?" so u r constantly feeding her brain with knowledge so that when some similar situation happens u don't have to tell her go left again unlike the (O-Girl).

But if we considered that an (O-Girl) controls everything after marriage what do u think what will happen if an (E-Girl) gets married ?!!!!

i've always liked the idea of having an (E-Wife) that's because i don't like the tellin' my wife what to do in each situation, also i think that i need someone beside me when i'm gonna take some decision and i need another opinion to consider besides mine , so the (E-Wife) is alot better.

But these days i began to adopt another idea which is built on the theory of "They are all the same" and i began to feel that what really differs from a girl to the other is that they have auxiliary options that are INSTALLED on their basic parts.

For example:

There's a girl that is beautiful,
but there's a girl that surpasses the one we mentioned above in that feature.

so the basic thing is that they are both beautiful but one has an auxiliary option which is that extra "beautiful" feature.

They both will give u the same thing coz they have the same basic features, the auxilary parts are like when u buy a car with a sports shape and the other with decent shape , having same properties from the inside , same speed, same acceleration,..... etc and they both do the same basic functions which is riding it to get to ur destination :D

But according to our Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) that u should choose the religious girl that's when u really get the best of them.

When we try to put this in our criteria that u'll always have to search for a girl that her basic feature is that "she's religious" then u try to look for the other auxiliary options (u may mix between religious and beautiful of course) :D

I think the religious girl(maybe + beautiful feature) is the (E-Girl) that i was talkin' about and that's the type each one of us should search for.

My friend (and I agree on his opinion) sees that marriage is not the thing u have to plan for it's just u find urself accidentally in it because all the things like love and shit like that doesn't exist and marriage maybe destroyed by the 1st time u have sex with ur wife :D

many of the recent married people despite getting married to the ones they love, sex (one of the prime reasons in destroying an entire marriage) can rearrange the whole thing.By that time u'll see that "seasons change" and "there are things that will never change; things do change"

Don't worry about it because whenever u enter a shop full of shoes to buy one, u'll find one that u like or convince urself that u like it.

So as Tyler Durden said in Fight Club : "Let the chips fall where they may".

yours,
R