What's the type of the girl u want ?

I was talking with a friend yesterday about girls,their importance,why each one of us (males) want 2 marry one of them (urgently),do each girl differ from the other or not..... and we both reached some level of agreement on some points which i'll show u at the end of the post but now let's disscuss some points about the girl u want

I once sorted girls (in my prespective) into 2 types of girls:

1-Ordinary Girl
(O-Girl) [standard edition] :D

2-Extraordinary Girl
(E-Girl) [professional edition], sometimes i call them "Divas" not to worship them but to remember that they are girls AND intelligent (who knows maybe creative in bed also) :D

of Course many girls during the period of engagement (which is more like the menstrual cycle) can be really a pain in the ass,...... how ?

most of the girls i don't know maybe have kinda program in their genetic code maybe to destroy humankind or something which she believes that will save her and will make her choose the best male that will come her way.

(so he will reach some level of greatness when she marries him !!!!)

She constantly tests him and puts him in situations in which he MUST be a jerk and doesn't agree on her requests just like the previous post ( being a such nice guy doesn't mean that she'll choose you ).

She feels that he's not a man because he agrees on her requests and tries to satisfy her and doesn't want to hurt her feelings or make her unhappy ..... illogical but true.

She has the right to not tell why she exactly rejected a good guy, it's just that her spider sense told her that this guy is not to be her future husband. She can say "Mafesh Qabool".

Great and because of that we see that many "2anesat" became "3anesat" eventually because they have used their right of saying "no" for too long till they became in time where no one can say "yes" to them.

I'm sorry to tell u this but each girl that looks to marriage in this prespective is a bitch and don't u ever feel sorry for her because that's not the way it should be for choosing a husband for her entire lifetime.


Returning to the point where i sorted the girls into 2 types.

1- Ordinary Girls (O-Girls)
Can be seen anywhere in the universe, most of them have taken care of their bodies and forgot their minds altogether. She can be considered more like a cow when u marry her. So marriage is just doubling everything and u make sure that ur salary can be divided by two.
When u say to her go left, she goes .... right she goes right without questioning.

I didn't get married so it maybe not the right point of view that married people may see.some people may disagree with me and see that girls transform into women and from that point she's the main boss of the small organization called "family" meaning that she controls everything and that means EVERYTHING.


2- Extraordinary Girls (E-Girls)
Can be seen i don't know maybe 10 times per lifetime or so. maybe it depends on ur domain or where do u work but they are very rare. Mainly they have taken good care of their minds and some of them forgot about their bodies. but i've met 2 exceptions to this rule so i didn't say "most of them".

(E-Girls) are intelligent and some guys find it really a pain in the ass to get married to one of them because when u say: go left she asks u :" why ?" so u r constantly feeding her brain with knowledge so that when some similar situation happens u don't have to tell her go left again unlike the (O-Girl).

But if we considered that an (O-Girl) controls everything after marriage what do u think what will happen if an (E-Girl) gets married ?!!!!

i've always liked the idea of having an (E-Wife) that's because i don't like the tellin' my wife what to do in each situation, also i think that i need someone beside me when i'm gonna take some decision and i need another opinion to consider besides mine , so the (E-Wife) is alot better.

But these days i began to adopt another idea which is built on the theory of "They are all the same" and i began to feel that what really differs from a girl to the other is that they have auxiliary options that are INSTALLED on their basic parts.

For example:

There's a girl that is beautiful,
but there's a girl that surpasses the one we mentioned above in that feature.

so the basic thing is that they are both beautiful but one has an auxiliary option which is that extra "beautiful" feature.

They both will give u the same thing coz they have the same basic features, the auxilary parts are like when u buy a car with a sports shape and the other with decent shape , having same properties from the inside , same speed, same acceleration,..... etc and they both do the same basic functions which is riding it to get to ur destination :D

But according to our Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) that u should choose the religious girl that's when u really get the best of them.

When we try to put this in our criteria that u'll always have to search for a girl that her basic feature is that "she's religious" then u try to look for the other auxiliary options (u may mix between religious and beautiful of course) :D

I think the religious girl(maybe + beautiful feature) is the (E-Girl) that i was talkin' about and that's the type each one of us should search for.

My friend (and I agree on his opinion) sees that marriage is not the thing u have to plan for it's just u find urself accidentally in it because all the things like love and shit like that doesn't exist and marriage maybe destroyed by the 1st time u have sex with ur wife :D

many of the recent married people despite getting married to the ones they love, sex (one of the prime reasons in destroying an entire marriage) can rearrange the whole thing.By that time u'll see that "seasons change" and "there are things that will never change; things do change"

Don't worry about it because whenever u enter a shop full of shoes to buy one, u'll find one that u like or convince urself that u like it.

So as Tyler Durden said in Fight Club : "Let the chips fall where they may".

yours,
R

This article i found interesting in lovehappens.com about women

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The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women - And What To Do About It

By David DeAngelo

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much Of A "Nice Guy"

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted “nice” guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date “jerks”... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.

What's going on here?

It's actually very simple...

Women don't base their choices of men on how “nice” a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.

I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.


MISTAKE #2: Trying To "Convince Her To Like You"

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just not interested?

Right! They try to “convince” the woman to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN “FEELS” WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

Never, ever, EVER.

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with “logic and reasoning”.

Think about it.

If a woman doesn't “feel it” for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being “reasonable” with her?

But we all do it.

When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.


MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission

In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's “approval” or “permission”.

Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... EVER.

Don't get me wrong here.

You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means “always getting her approval and permission for things”, think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her...


MISTAKE #4: Trying To "Buy" Her Affection With Food And Gifts

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?

If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.

Well guess what?

It's only NATURAL when this happens...

That's right, I said NATURAL.

When you do these things, you send a clear message:

“I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection”.

Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.


MISTAKE #5: Sharing "How You Feel" Too Early In The Relationship With Her

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they “feel” too early on.

Attractive women are rare.

And they get a LOT of attention from men.

Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME.

An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.

And guess what?

Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.

That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.

They know what to expect.

And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying “You know, I really, REALLY like you” after one or two dates.

This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.

Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.

There's a much better way...


MISTAKE #6: Not "Getting" How Attraction Works For Women

Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.

You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.

When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.

But does the same apply for women?

Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?

Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their “attraction mechanisms” triggered by things OTHER than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?

Think about it.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.

And ANY guy can learn how...


MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks

One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age.

And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.

But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.

There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...

And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.

YOU DO NOT have to “settle” for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.

Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.


MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women

Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.

Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.

Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.

Another bad idea...

Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Women aren't attracted to Wussies!


MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women

Now I'm going to blow your mind...

A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.

Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.

I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical... everything.

If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.

And you KNOW it.

It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.


MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

This is the biggest mistake of all.

This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.

I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.

Hey, I've been there myself.

Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women...

About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.

It frustrated the hell out of me.

One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night... right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.

Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.

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I hope this gives you an illustration of the twisted nature of women

"el banat zay tawabe3 el bosta kol ma tetef 3ale8om yelza2o aktar" :D

R